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Many of you will have noticed I’m stepping up my coaching, my desire to help more people believe in themselves. The reason this has happened is because I started to doubt myself and I had to take massive action on my personal development. I also felt there was something missing in my life.
My doubt came about because one member of my team who I had mentored for nearly 3 years, decided to leave my business and join another network marketing company. I had no idea that my team member was so unhappy with her business, when it was moving forwards and growing. I did see small triggers but didn’t question them because she indicated to me that she was happy. This of course had a big effect on me on a personal level. My business was fine because it has depth and carried on.
Thoughts started to enter my mind such as…. Why didn’t I see how unhappy she was? Could I have helped more? Did I do something wrong? Am I not a good mentor? I started looking at me and the busines negatively. Even though we had left on good terms, I couldn’t help but put some blame onto myself.
I needed to snap out of this. My way of coping was to brush it away and continue running my business without actually sitting back and accepting what had just happened. This is the problem with our society, we are taught to carry on and keep our mind occupied with daily life and busines. I didn’t have time so I thought, to sit back and gather my thoughts. My emotions were bottled up and put in a cupboard, how stupid of me!
The summer holidays came and this forced me to take a step back for 6 weeks as I had my son home with me.
I enrolled on a NLP Life Coach Diploma Level 4 in August. NLP stands for Neuro linguistric programming. The course is about re programming your mind, self belief, and how to help others using NLP techniques. NLP is a talking therapy and is used by many coaches across the world. I am big on personal development and the course forced me to look at my own life. I realised I was missing out on so much. I had to change. After coaching myself I’ve realised why I have been feeling the way I did.
I wrote down all the positives about my business and wow there were 2 pages of A4! I then wrote down the negatives, there was only a few lines on a A4 piece of paper. I took the negatives and crushed them up in a ball after ripping them up and threw it away. I felt like my anger, negativity went away with it!
Very quickly after learning about myself. I’ve realised my colleague leaving, really had nothing to do with me, nothing. (Even though she had said that to me already) I now actually beleive it. I learnt I was focusing on what I thought she was thinking! How stupid, silly and redicilous. I was guilty of over thinking.
I havnt been defeated at all, the business is turning over between 50 to 60k every 3 weeks. Yes that’s right £50,000 big ones. My team are still there and growing. Mr role remains very much a mentor and supporting coach. I have such wonderful inspiring leaders that are developing their teams.
Now back to NLP. My personal development journey is on going, it always will be. I’m now ready to coach other people outside of my Network Marketing business.
Remove blockers, programme your mind to success, deal with rejection, fear and doubt. I can help people be the best version of themselves. I have now launched my coaching business which is an addition of my existing business. My new skills will benefit my team massively, but if will also benefit so many more people.
I no longer self doubt. I am in the best place I have ever been. I’ve just enjoyed a week in the sun with my family. I have so much to be greatful for. I chose life and to be the best version of me.
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When you feel defeated it’s ok. Reflect on what has happened and take action when you are ready.
My day starts with selecting a few mantras and reading them out loud. I always start my day positive. My day ends with reading my journal and taking note of what I have acheived that day. Start your day with a positive and end your day with a positive. I continue to study and read lots more on anything positive.
I am looking for people that would like life coaching and I’ll be offering a free 20 minute consultation via Facebook, face to face or Skype. I’ll write about my services in more detail in future blogs. I have had a re branding session for my business click my Coaching video
Remember “The universe has your back” you have just got to take time out every day to enjoy life, look at life in more detail and appreciate what you have. We live a short time on this planet, live life to your full potential. Free yourself of negativity and focus on your values and passions.
BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU